Belly button Quote by Donna-Marie Riley
““Last night I thought I kissed the loneliness from out your belly button. I thought I did, but later you sat up, all bones and restless hands, and told me there is a knot in your body that I cannot undo. I never know what to say to these things. “It’s okay.” “Come back to bed.” “Please don’t go away again.” Sometimes you are gone for days at a time and it is all I can do not to call the police, file a missing person’s report, even though you are right there, still sleeping next to me in bed. But your eyes are like an empty house in winter: lights left on to scare away intruders. Except in this case I am the intruder and you are already locked up so tight that no one could possibly jimmy their way in. Last night I thought I gave you a reason not to be so sad when I held your body like a high note and we both trembled from the effort. Some people, though, are sad against all reason, all sensibility, all love. I know better now. I know what to say to the things you admit to me in the dark, all bones and restless hands. “It’s okay.” “You can stay in bed.” “Please come back to me again.””
About This Quote
A speaker describes intimate attempts to comfort a partner who feels emotionally distant, using reassurances that feel inadequate against deep, unresolved pain.
In simple terms: Trying to soothe a loved one’s deep loneliness feels insufficient.
Offer genuine presence and listen without trying to fix.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- nighttime conversations
- caregiving
- relationship counseling
- mental health support
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you support someone when words feel empty?
- What actions show deeper empathy beyond reassurance?
Comfort may not resolve underlying trauma; professional help may be needed.