Beauty Quote by Donald Miller
““BUT THERE WAS SOMETHING QUITE BEAUTIFUL about this new thing with Betsy. She was taking me somewhere. I’d known enough older guys who gave their lives to their careers and have nothing to show for it save a lot of money and power and loneliness to realize Betsy was right. Relationships matter. They matter as much as exercise and nutrition. And not all relationships help us reach our goals. God doesn’t give us crying, pooping children because he wants to advance our careers. He gives them to us for the same reason he confused language at the Tower of Babel, to create chaos and deter us from investing too much energy in the gluttonous idols of self-absorption.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Blue Like Jazz by Donald Miller, 2003
The passage argues that relationships are essential to a balanced life, comparable to health habits, and warns against letting self‑absorption dominate.
In simple terms: Relationships are as vital as health habits; avoid selfishness.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize meaningful connections over career alone.
Themes
relationships
balance
self‑absorption
meaning
chaos
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage
- friendship
- teamwork
- family dynamics
- career planning
Key Concepts
human connection
purpose
spirituality
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you assess if a relationship supports your growth?
- What habits help keep relationships healthy?
A Different Perspective
Self‑absorption can still dominate despite advice.
