Excuse Quote by Derek Blasberg
“If you are going to worry all night, you should let the hostess know that you're coming for cocktails and leaving when everyone sits down for dinner. If you do need to call to check in, people will understand, but excuse yourself from the table and head to the ladies room to do it.”
About This Quote
Source Article: Advice Column, New York Magazine, 2015
When anxious about social events, communicate your needs early and use discreet moments to manage them without disrupting others.
In simple terms: Tell hosts early, use private spaces for calls.
Key Takeaway
Plan ahead, excuse yourself politely.
Themes
social anxiety
communication
etiquette
Mood
anxious
reassuring
practical
Type
advice
social etiquette
When to use this quote
- networking events
- dinner parties
- business lunches
- weddings
- cocktail receptions
Key Concepts
self‑care
boundary setting
social dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance honesty with social expectations?
- What private strategies help you stay calm?
A Different Perspective
If you constantly avoid events, you may miss opportunities for connection.
