Esteem Quote by Dennis Prager
““A good general rule is that self-esteem for its own sake turns out to be much worse than merely reinforcing unearned positive feelings about oneself. Not only does high self-esteem (especially when unearned) not increase “social responsibility”; it decreases it. The criminologist and sociologist Roy Baumeister, a professor of psychology at Florida State University who has spent a lifetime studying violent criminals, notes that the great majority of criminals have higher self-esteem than noncriminals. You need high self-esteem to think that rules apply to others but not to you.””
About This Quote
Source Book: “The Self‑Esteem Myth,” 2015
Unearned high self‑esteem can reduce social responsibility and justify rule‑breaking.
In simple terms: False confidence harms society.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate humility, earn confidence.
Themes
psychology
ethics
self‑esteem
Mood
critical
thought‑provoking
Type
philosophical
social commentary
When to use this quote
- leadership
- education
- policy making
Key Concepts
social responsibility
confidence bias
behavioral psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- When does confidence become harmful?
- How can we encourage earned self‑esteem?
A Different Perspective
Self‑esteem isn’t inherently good; context matters.
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