Be considerate Quote by David O. McKay
“Youth need guidance, direction, and proper restraint...Parents, too, have a responsibility in this training not to provoke children to wrath. They should be considerate not to irritate by vexatious commands or place unreasonable blame. Whenever possible they should give encouragement rather than remonstrance or reproof.”
About This Quote
Source Book: General Conference Talk, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 1955
Parents should guide children with patience and encouragement, avoiding harsh criticism that fuels resentment.
In simple terms: Guide children gently, avoid harsh criticism.
Encourage, don’t provoke.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family meals
- school discipline
- teen counseling
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can parents balance firm guidance with empathy?
- What encouragement strategies work best for your child?
Harsh discipline can damage trust and long‑term respect.