Carry Quote by David Lindsay-Abaire
““Nat: I don't know. The weight of it, I guess. At some point it becomes bearable. It turns into something you can crawl out from under. And carry around--like a brick in your pocket. And you forget it every once in a while, but then you reach in for whatever reason and there it is: "Oh right. That." Which can be awful. But not all the time. Sometime's it kinda ... Not that you like it exactly, but it's what you have instead of your son, so you don't wanna let go of it either. So you carry it around. And it doesn't go away, which is ... Becca: What? Nat: Fine ... actually.””
About This Quote
The speaker describes grief as a persistent, heavy presence that can become tolerable yet remains a lingering burden, sometimes resurfacing unexpectedly.
In simple terms: Grief is a heavy, lingering weight.
Key Takeaway
Grief persists, shaping daily life.
Themes
grief
burden
acceptance
memory
resilience
loss
Mood
somber
reflective
hopeful
Type
personal anecdote
philosophical reflection
When to use this quote
- after a loved one's death
- during mourning periods
- when encountering reminders
- in moments of solitude
- while reflecting on legacy
Key Concepts
emotional weight
coping mechanisms
attachment
memory triggers
Practical Applications
- therapy sessions
- support group discussions
Questions to Reflect On
- How does the metaphor of a brick illustrate coping with loss?
- What strategies help transform persistent grief into manageable presence?
