Believe Quote by David Levithan
“You like him because he's a lost boy. Believe me, I've seen it happen before. But do you know what happens to girls who love lost boys? They become lost themselves. Without fail.”
About This Quote
The quote warns that being attracted to someone who is emotionally adrift can cause a similar sense of aimlessness in the partner, especially women, leading to mutual loss of direction.
In simple terms: Attracting lost boys leads girls to become lost too.
Key Takeaway
Romanticizing instability spreads instability.
Themes
relationship dynamics
emotional dependency
gender roles
self‑identity
psychological contagion
Mood
cautious
reflective
somber
Type
cautionary
observational
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating a brooding artist
- friendship with a chronic wanderer
- supporting a partner in crisis
- recovering from a toxic relationship
Key Concepts
codependency
self‑sabotage
attachment styles
personal growth
Practical Applications
- counseling couples
- writing self‑help articles
Questions to Reflect On
- How does one maintain self‑direction when drawn to instability?
- What signs indicate a partner is influencing your sense of purpose?
A Different Perspective
Some argue that personal agency can prevent a partner from becoming lost, regardless of the other’s state.
