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Closeness Quote by David Levithan

“When I was younger, I craved friendship and closeness. I make bonds without acknowledging how quickly and permanently they would break. I took people lives' personally. I felt their friends could be my friends, their parents could be their parents. But after awhile, I had to stop. It was too…” quote by David Levithan
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““When I was younger, I craved friendship and closeness. I make bonds without acknowledging how quickly and permanently they would break. I took people lives' personally. I felt their friends could be my friends, their parents could be their parents. But after awhile, I had to stop. It was too heartbreaking to live with too many separations.””

David Levithan

About This Quote

Source Book: The Upside of Falling by David Levithan, 2015

Friendship can feel essential, but it often ends unexpectedly, causing deep emotional pain and the need to protect oneself.

In simple terms: Friendships can break, causing hurt.

Key Takeaway

Guard your heart, cherish healthy bonds.

Themes

friendship loss emotional resilience

Mood

sad reflective

Type

personal emotional

When to use this quote

  • teenage relationships
  • family dynamics
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

attachment theory grief boundaries

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance openness with self‑protection?
  • What signs indicate a friendship is becoming harmful?
A Different Perspective

Friendships can also bring joy and support.

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