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Discontent Quote by David Levithan

“reservation, n. There are times when I worry that I've already lost myself. That is, that my self is so inseparable from being with you that if we were to separate, I would no longer be. I save this thought for when I feel the darkest discontent. I never meant to depend so much on someone else.” quote by David Levithan
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““reservation, n. There are times when I worry that I've already lost myself. That is, that my self is so inseparable from being with you that if we were to separate, I would no longer be. I save this thought for when I feel the darkest discontent. I never meant to depend so much on someone else.””

David Levithan

About This Quote

Source Novel: “Every Day” (2012)

The speaker worries about losing self‑identity when deeply attached to another, fearing emptiness in separation.

In simple terms: Fear of losing self when dependent on someone.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate independent self‑worth.

Themes

identity dependency loneliness

Mood

introspective somber

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • therapy
  • personal growth
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

psychology of attachment self‑concept

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you maintain self when love?
  • What triggers your darkest discontent?
A Different Perspective

May romanticize dependency over healthy boundaries.

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