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Desire Quote by David Levithan

“I don't understand this at all. It's like protesting the fact that some people are red-haired. In my experience, desire is desire, love is love. I have never fallen in love with a gender. I have fallen for individuals. I know this is hard for people to do, but I don't understand why it's so hard…” quote by David Levithan
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““I don't understand this at all. It's like protesting the fact that some people are red-haired. In my experience, desire is desire, love is love. I have never fallen in love with a gender. I have fallen for individuals. I know this is hard for people to do, but I don't understand why it's so hard, when it's so obvious.””

David Levithan

About This Quote

Source Novel: Every Day, David Levithan, 2012

The speaker argues that love is personal, not tied to gender, and questions why society complicates simple attraction.

In simple terms: Love is about individuals, not gender categories.

Key Takeaway

Accept love for who people are.

Themes

love identity acceptance social norms gender

Mood

thoughtful hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendship
  • family discussions
  • LGBTQ+ advocacy

Key Concepts

personal attraction human connection societal expectations

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we shift focus from gender to person?
  • What barriers keep people from seeing love as genderless?
A Different Perspective

Some people view gender as central to attraction, complicating acceptance.

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