Feelings Quote by David Levithan
“And I find myself saying, “It wasn’t really about her.” And finding it’s true. What do you mean?” Norah asks. It was about the feeling, you know? She caused it in me, but it wasn’t about her. It was about my reaction, what I wanted to feel and then convinced myself that I felt, because I wanted it that bad. That illusion. It was love because I created it as love.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Every Day by David Levithan, 2012
We often mistake our own emotional reactions for the object of love, confusing self‑generated feelings with the person themselves.
In simple terms: We confuse our feelings with the person we love.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and own your emotional projections.
Themes
love
self‑awareness
perception
illusion
emotion
Mood
reflective
introspective
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- personal journaling
- therapy sessions
- mindful meditation
Key Concepts
psychology
attachment theory
self‑deception
Questions to Reflect On
- What feelings am I projecting onto others?
- How can I differentiate my needs from my love?
A Different Perspective
It can be hard to separate genuine affection from self‑created narratives.
