Control Quote by Dalai Lama
“When someone talks about self discipline, it usually means they want to control someone.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Public Talk on Ethics, Dalai Lama, 2005
Self‑discipline is often a veil for controlling others, not genuine personal mastery.
In simple terms: Self‑discipline can be used to dominate rather than improve oneself.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate discipline for personal growth, not control.
Themes
ethics
power
autonomy
self‑control
Mood
calm
instructive
Type
ethical
reflective
When to use this quote
- personal habits
- leadership
- education
- parenting
Key Concepts
Buddhist philosophy
social dynamics
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate healthy self‑control from controlling behavior?
- Can discipline be practiced without imposing on others?
A Different Perspective
Discipline can become coercive if misapplied.
