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Attachment Quote by Dalai Lama

“The compassion we feel normally is biased and mixed with attachment. Genuine compassion flows towards all living beings, particularly your enemies. If I try to develop compassion towards my enemy, it may not benefit him directly, he may not even be aware of it. But it will immediately benefit me…” quote by Dalai Lama
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“The compassion we feel normally is biased and mixed with attachment. Genuine compassion flows towards all living beings, particularly your enemies. If I try to develop compassion towards my enemy, it may not benefit him directly, he may not even be aware of it. But it will immediately benefit me by calming my mind. On the other hand, if I dwell on how awful everything is, I immediately lose my peace of mind.”

Dalai Lama

About This Quote

Source Speech: Compassion Lecture, 2019

True compassion is impartial and benefits the giver by calming the mind, unlike biased compassion tied to attachment.

In simple terms: Impartial compassion soothes the mind.

Key Takeaway

Practice universal compassion.

Themes

compassion mindfulness attachment inner peace

Mood

serene inspired

Type

spiritual practical

When to use this quote

  • meditation
  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth
  • stress reduction

Key Concepts

Buddhist philosophy psychology of empathy spiritual practice

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you extend kindness to those you dislike?
  • What practices help detach compassion from personal bias?
A Different Perspective

Developing compassion for enemies may be emotionally challenging and culturally discouraged.

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