Attachment Quote by Dalai Lama
“The compassion we feel normally is biased and mixed with attachment. Genuine compassion flows towards all living beings, particularly your enemies. If I try to develop compassion towards my enemy, it may not benefit him directly, he may not even be aware of it. But it will immediately benefit me by calming my mind. On the other hand, if I dwell on how awful everything is, I immediately lose my peace of mind.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Compassion Lecture, 2019
True compassion is impartial and benefits the giver by calming the mind, unlike biased compassion tied to attachment.
In simple terms: Impartial compassion soothes the mind.
Practice universal compassion.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- meditation
- conflict resolution
- personal growth
- stress reduction
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you extend kindness to those you dislike?
- What practices help detach compassion from personal bias?
Developing compassion for enemies may be emotionally challenging and culturally discouraged.