Balance-in-life Quote by Dada Bhagwan
““What is worth winning in this world? The three veds (sufferings). The one who has conquered ved (sufferings), he has conquered the whole world. What are the three veds (the sufferings)? The male, the female and the neutral gender.””
About This Quote
Conquering the three fundamental sources of suffering—male, female, and neutral—leads to mastery over the world.
In simple terms: Overcoming basic sufferings yields mastery.
Key Takeaway
Seek to transcend attachment to gendered identities.
Themes
spiritual liberation
inner peace
self‑mastery
Mood
reflective
serene
Type
spiritual
philosophical
When to use this quote
- relationships
- identity crises
- social roles
- personal development
Key Concepts
non‑duality
attachment theory
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you define suffering beyond gender?
- Can you release attachment to any identity?
A Different Perspective
Not all suffering fits neatly into three categories.
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