Affairs Quote by Dada Bhagwan
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““Do not keep control over household affairs. The one who keeps control has to wander around. The unusable money [torn notes, ruined coins] are offered as homage in prayer rituals! ‘Live’ as a ‘friend’ with the ‘wife’. You are her ‘friend’ and she is your ‘friend’.””
About This Quote
Source Speech: Teachings of Dada Bhagwan, 1995
Household authority should be shared; rigid control leads to wandering and spiritual imbalance.
In simple terms: Share household duties.
Key Takeaway
Practice mutual respect and partnership.
Themes
relationships
spirituality
balance
authority
Mood
thoughtful
serene
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- family budgeting
- community rituals
Key Concepts
shared responsibility
gender roles
rituals
friendship
Questions to Reflect On
- How can partners negotiate shared control?
- What rituals reinforce equality?
A Different Perspective
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