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Adulthood Quote by D. H. Lawrence

“I believe a man is born first unto himself - for the happy developing of himself, while the world is a nursery, and the pretty things are to be snatched for, and pleasant things tasted; some people seem to exist thus right to the end. But most are born again on entering manhood; then they are born…” quote by D. H. Lawrence
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“I believe a man is born first unto himself - for the happy developing of himself, while the world is a nursery, and the pretty things are to be snatched for, and pleasant things tasted; some people seem to exist thus right to the end. But most are born again on entering manhood; then they are born to humanity, to a consciousness of all the laughing, and the never-ceasing murmur of pain and sorrow that comes from the terrible multitudes of brothers.”

D. H. Lawrence

About This Quote

Source Novel: Women in Love, 1920

Man matures from self‑centered youth to aware of collective humanity and shared suffering.

In simple terms: Growth from selfishness to empathy.

Key Takeaway

Embrace shared humanity.

Themes

growth empathy humanity

Mood

reflective philosophical

Type

literary existential

When to use this quote

  • education
  • parenting
  • community service
  • therapy

Key Concepts

self‑realization collective consciousness pain joy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does personal growth affect societal responsibility?
  • What does it mean to be born again as an adult?
A Different Perspective

Self‑interest can limit understanding of others.

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