Adulthood Quote by D. H. Lawrence
“I believe a man is born first unto himself - for the happy developing of himself, while the world is a nursery, and the pretty things are to be snatched for, and pleasant things tasted; some people seem to exist thus right to the end. But most are born again on entering manhood; then they are born to humanity, to a consciousness of all the laughing, and the never-ceasing murmur of pain and sorrow that comes from the terrible multitudes of brothers.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Women in Love, 1920
Man matures from self‑centered youth to aware of collective humanity and shared suffering.
In simple terms: Growth from selfishness to empathy.
Embrace shared humanity.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- education
- parenting
- community service
- therapy
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does personal growth affect societal responsibility?
- What does it mean to be born again as an adult?
Self‑interest can limit understanding of others.