Conflict Quote by Criss Jami
“Those who live as though God sets the rules are not going by their own rules. That is the self-sacrifice, or selflessness, that peace more often than not requires. Those who insist on going by their own rules cannot make that sacrifice. They are the steady adherents of (global) conflict because they are forever fighting both themselves and others to do whatever they think that they want to do.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Alchemist of the Soul, Criss Jami, 2014
Living by external authority limits personal freedom, while self‑imposed rules demand sacrifice and can lead to inner conflict.
In simple terms: Following others' rules limits freedom; making your own rules demands sacrifice and can cause conflict.
Balance personal values with humility.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- leadership
- personal development
- spiritual practice
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you discern when to follow versus when to lead?
- What sacrifices are necessary for true peace?
Self‑rule can become rigid, ignoring communal needs.