Absence Quote by Christopher Hitchens
“I boldly assert, in fact I think I know, that a lot of friendships and connections absolutely depend upon a sort of shared language, or slang. Not necessarily designed to exclude others, this can establish a certain comity and, even after a long absence, re-establish it in a second.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Importance of Language in Social Bonds, 2005
Shared slang creates a sense of belonging and can quickly rebuild rapport after separation.
In simple terms: Slang builds connection and restores friendships.
Key Takeaway
Use common language to strengthen ties.
Themes
communication
friendship
identity
Mood
reflective
analytical
Type
observational
social
When to use this quote
- reuniting with old friends
- team building
- online communities
Key Concepts
sociolinguistics
group cohesion
Questions to Reflect On
- How does shared language affect trust?
- When can slang become a barrier?
A Different Perspective
Slang may exclude outsiders unintentionally.
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