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Remember Quote by Christina Rossetti

“Yet if you should forget me for a while And afterwards remember, do not grieve: For if the darkness and corruption leave A vestige of thoughts that I once had, Better by far you should forget and smile Than that you should remember and be sad.” quote by Christina Rossetti
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““Yet if you should forget me for a while And afterwards remember, do not grieve: For if the darkness and corruption leave A vestige of thoughts that I once had, Better by far you should forget and smile Than that you should remember and be sad.””

Christina Rossetti

About This Quote

Source Poem: “Remember” by Christina Rossetti, 1849

The speaker asks that if forgotten, later remembered, one should not mourn but smile, preferring oblivion over sorrowful recollection.

In simple terms: Forget me, then smile, not mourn.

Key Takeaway

Choose joy over sorrow when recalling past thoughts.

Themes

memory loss acceptance emotion impermanence

Mood

melancholic reflective hopeful

Type

poetic philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • personal reflection
  • mourning
  • reconciliation
  • healing
  • celebration of life

Key Concepts

nostalgia grief resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you hold onto painful memories?
  • Can forgetting bring peace?
A Different Perspective

Remembering can reopen wounds and prolong pain.

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