Arbiter Quote by Christian Nestell Bovee
“It is indeed a misfortune for a woman to be without beauty, as with men the eye is the chief arbiter of qualities in the sex. Her beauty is her capital--her worth in the market matrimonial depends upon it. With her the Virtues are less reverenced when unaccompanied by the Graces. The sex understand this very well; and hence they seek mainly to make captive the eye, knowing the mind and heart will follow as a matter of course.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Moral Essays, 1845
Society judges women primarily by physical appearance, treating beauty as economic value and a prerequisite for virtue.
In simple terms: Women are valued for looks, not character.
Recognize worth beyond appearance.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- career advancement
- media representation
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does media shape beauty ideals?
- What alternative values can we promote?
Beauty standards are culturally constructed and can change.