Addicted to you Quote by Chogyam Trungpa
“The ideal of helping is to make others independent of you. You help them to become more independent rather than making them addicted to you.”
About This Quote
Source Teaching: Buddhist Leadership, 1970
True assistance empowers others to become self‑reliant rather than fostering dependency.
In simple terms: Help others stand on their own.
Key Takeaway
Encourage independence in mentorship.
Themes
service
independence
empowerment
relationships
Mood
reflective
compassionate
Type
philosophical
guidance
When to use this quote
- coaching sessions
- team leadership
- community development
Key Concepts
self‑reliance
non‑attachment
skillful means
Questions to Reflect On
- What habits can you foster to promote self‑reliance?
- How do you balance support with autonomy?
A Different Perspective
Over‑helping can create reliance.
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