Expectation Quote by Charlotte Selver
“It is not what you think should be, but what is, that is interesting. When you have the expectation that something should be such and such a way, you will never learn what your nature wants.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Radio interview, 1970s
Expectations can blind us to reality; true interest lies in what actually is.
In simple terms: Expectations block learning.
Key Takeaway
Question assumptions.
Themes
perception
learning
reality
Mood
contemplative
inquisitive
Type
philosophical
motivational
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- education
- therapy
- decision making
- creative work
Key Concepts
psychology
mindfulness
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations limit you?
- How can you stay open to reality?
A Different Perspective
Expectations sometimes guide useful predictions.
