Absence Quote by Charlotte Brontë
““What have you been doing during my absence?' 'Nothing particular; teaching Adele as usual.' 'And getting a good deal paler than you were - as I saw at first sight. What is the matter?' 'Nothing at all, sir.' 'Did you take any cold that night you half drowned me?' 'Not the least.' 'Return to the drawing-room: you are deserting too early.' 'I am tired, sir.' He looked at me for a minute. 'And a little depressed,' he said. 'What about? Tell me.' 'Nothing - nothing, sir. I am not depressed.' 'But I affirm that you are: so much depressed that a few more words would bring tears to your eyes - indeed, they are there now, shining and swimming; and a bead has slipped from the lash and fallen on the flag. If I had time, and was not in mortal dread of some prating prig of a servant passing, I would know what all this means. Well, to-night I excuse you; but understand that so long as my visitors stay, I expect you to appear in the drawing-room every evening; it is my wish; don't neglect it. Now go, and send Sophie for Adele. Good-night, my..' He stopped, bit his lip, and abruptly left me. (Jane and Mr Rochester)””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë, 1847
A character pretends indifference while internally struggling with depression and expectations, revealing hidden emotional turmoil.
In simple terms: Someone hides sadness behind a façade of normalcy.
Recognize and address suppressed feelings.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marital conflict
- mental health
- communication breakdown
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What emotions are you concealing?
- How does societal pressure shape personal honesty?
The speaker may be masking deeper issues, limiting genuine connection.