Affection Quote by Charles Spurgeon
“I think you may judge of a man’s character by the persons whose affection he seeks. If you find a man seeking only the affection of those who are great, depend upon it he is ambitious and self-seeking; but when you observe that a man seeks the affection of those who can do nothing for him, but for whom he must do everything, you know that he is not seeking himself, but that pure benevolence sways his heart.”
About This Quote
A man's character is reflected by whose affection he seeks: seeking greatness shows ambition, while seeking those who need him shows pure benevolence.
In simple terms: Affection sought reveals character.
Key Takeaway
Observe who you seek approval from.
Themes
character
motivation
benevolence
Mood
reflective
ethical
Type
moral
philosophical
When to use this quote
- leadership
- friendship
- mentor relationships
Key Concepts
social hierarchy
selflessness
ambition
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you seek approval from those who empower you or those you empower?
- What does your choice say about your values?
A Different Perspective
Seeking praise from the powerful can breed selfishness.
