Feelings Quote by Carter Dickson
““That sounds silly, doesn't it? Running away just because you don't want to hurt somebody's feelings? But did you ever think how much of our lives we spend,dodging and twisting and making things difficult for ourselves, to avoid hurting somebody's feelings. Even people with absolutely no claim on us?””
About This Quote
Source Short story: “The Unspoken Burden”, 1947
People often avoid honesty to protect feelings, creating self‑imposed complications.
In simple terms: Avoiding truth leads to needless trouble.
Key Takeaway
Practice gentle honesty.
Themes
communication
honesty
self‑sabotage
Mood
thoughtful
cautious
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace interactions
- family discussions
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it okay to with feelings?
- How can you balance honesty and kindness?
A Different Perspective
Being overly blunt can also cause harm.
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