Message Quote by Carol Lynn Pearson
““I sat down and read out loud a statement on the box, a message from the Celestial realm. If I had my child to raise all over again, I'd finger paint more, and point the finger less. I'd do less correcting, and more connecting. I'd take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes. I would care to know less, and know to care more. I'd take more hikes and fly more kites. I'd stop playing serious, and seriously play. I would run through more fields and gaze at more stars. I'd do more hugging, and less tugging. I would be firm less often, and affirm much more. I'd build self-esteem first, and the house later. I'd teach less about the love of power, And more about the power of love. -Diane Loomans, Full Esteem Ahead””
About This Quote
Source Book: Full Esteem Ahead by Diane Loomans, 2015
A parent reflects on how to nurture a child with love, presence, and freedom rather than control and correction.
In simple terms: Parenting should prioritize connection over correction.
Key Takeaway
Choose love and presence over control.
Themes
parenting
mindfulness
growth
creativity
love
Mood
reflective
hopeful
inspirational
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- raising children
- family activities
- daily interactions
- personal development
Key Concepts
attachment theory
mindful parenting
intrinsic motivation
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you practice mindful presence with your child?
- What habits can you change to foster more love?
A Different Perspective
Balancing guidance with freedom can be challenging.
