Get-back-up Quote by C. Vivian Stringer
““I cannot tell you how many people during that time told me: 'I’m so sorry this happened to you—but I am so glad that it was you who it happened to.' I can't help but think that they're right. I have been through a lot in my life, and if nothing else, it has made me strong. I wouldn't have wished it on the team for anything. If could go back right now and steal those words out of his mouth, I would do it. But as I have spent a career telling the young women in my care, all you can do is focus on the things you control, and what we controlled in this instance was our response.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Sports Illustrated, 2023
The speaker reflects on personal hardship, emphasizing resilience and the importance of focusing on controllable factors.
In simple terms: Hardship builds strength; focus on what you can control.
Key Takeaway
Control your response, not the event.
Themes
resilience
control
leadership
Mood
determined
inspirational
Type
motivational
reflective
When to use this quote
- coaching
- team dynamics
- personal adversity
- career challenges
Key Concepts
psychology
sports
growth mindset
Questions to Reflect On
- What can you control in a difficult situation?
- How do you support others facing hardship?
A Different Perspective
It may underplay systemic issues beyond personal control.
