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“We must get over wanting to be needed.” quote by C. S. Lewis
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“We must get over wanting to be needed.”

C. S. Lewis

About This Quote

Source Book: The Four Loves, C. S. Lewis, 1960

The quote urges moving beyond the desire to be needed, suggesting personal freedom and healthier relationships.

In simple terms: Stop seeking to be needed.

Key Takeaway

Release dependence on others' expectations.

Themes

independence self‑worth relationships psychology

Mood

reflective motivational

Type

psychological self‑help

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • romantic partnership
  • career decisions

Key Concepts

codependency personal autonomy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What drives your need to be needed?
  • How can you find value without external validation?
A Different Perspective

Overcoming this need may cause loneliness or fear.

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