Describe yourself Quote by Brendon Burchard
““Describe how you’ve perceived yourself in the following situations over the past several months—with your significant other, at work, with the kids or team, in social situations with strangers. Now ask, “Is that who I really see myself being in the future?” How would my future self look, feel, and behave differently in those situations? If you could describe yourself in just three aspirational words—words that would sum up who you are at your best in the future—what would those words be? Why are those words meaningful to you? Once you find your words, put them in your phone as an alarm label that goes off several times per day.””
About This Quote
Source Workshop: High Performance Habits Seminar, 2020
Reflecting on self‑image across roles reveals gaps between current behavior and desired future self, prompting intentional change.
In simple terms: Think about how you act now versus how you want to be.
Key Takeaway
Identify gaps and set aspirational identity.
Themes
self‑awareness
growth
identity
future‑self
Mood
thoughtful
motivational
Type
reflective
inspirational
When to use this quote
- personal coaching
- family discussions
- career planning
- social networking
Key Concepts
psychology
habit formation
visioning
Questions to Reflect On
- What three words best capture your ideal future self?
- How will you remind yourself daily of these words?
A Different Perspective
Future self may differ from current self; change requires sustained effort.
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