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“I wanted to shove her away, thinking of my job, of headlines, of how this kind of comfort was outside the behavioral guidelines of my contract. She began to sob more softly while holding me tightly, and I let her. I let her have control of me for that moment. I let her break behavioral guidelines…” quote by BJ Ward
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““I wanted to shove her away, thinking of my job, of headlines, of how this kind of comfort was outside the behavioral guidelines of my contract. She began to sob more softly while holding me tightly, and I let her. I let her have control of me for that moment. I let her break behavioral guidelines as more important ones had been broken on her. And then we stopped being student and teacher—just a couple people at a loss when the powerful and unexpected had been suddenly thrust upon us. The principal and three students turned the corner and stopped short. I knew it might be years before I cleared my name, but far longer for her to reclaim her life.””

BJ Ward

About This Quote

Source Novel: Unnamed literary work, 2023

The narrator breaks professional boundaries to comfort a grieving person, recognizing that personal compassion can outweigh strict rules, and both experience a shared moment of vulnerability.

In simple terms: Compassion can outweigh strict rules.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize humanity over rigid guidelines.

Themes

empathy boundaries vulnerability

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • counseling
  • crisis support
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

human connection ethical dilemmas personal growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • When should personal empathy override professional codes?
  • How do power dynamics shift in intimate moments?
A Different Perspective

Breaking rules can have unintended consequences.

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