Holding hands Quote by Beth Moore
““As long as we live, our self-absorption and our insecurity will walk together, holding hands and swinging them back and forth like two little girls on their way to a pretend playground they can never find. Human nature dictates that most often we will be as insecure as we are self-absorbed. The best possible way to keep from getting sucked into the superficial narcissistic mentality that money, possessions, and sensuality can satisfy and secure us is to deliberately give ourselves to something much greater...[Christ] showed us that giving, rather than getting, is the means to receiving...to find yourself, your true self, you must lose yourself in something larger.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Living in the Light, 2019
Self‑absorption and insecurity are paired, but giving oneself to a higher purpose breaks the cycle and leads to true fulfillment.
In simple terms: Give to receive; lose self in something greater.
Key Takeaway
Seek purpose beyond self‑interest.
Themes
spirituality
self‑esteem
altruism
psychology
Mood
hopeful
motivational
Type
spiritual
philosophical
When to use this quote
- practicing charity
- volunteering
- meditation on purpose
Key Concepts
narcissism
self‑transcendence
faith
Questions to Reflect On
- What larger purpose can you commit to?
- How does service reshape your identity?
A Different Perspective
Self‑absorption can still dominate despite efforts.
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