Desires Quote by Bernard Roth
““If in doubt, go back to the earlier exercise where you asked yourself three questions: “Who am I?” “What do I want?” “What is my purpose?” It’s a good idea to revisit that exercise frequently. Now I’d like you to do it once more and add a new word: “What do I really want?” Keep asking it, over and over, until you feel you have gained insight into your own desires so you’re no longer at the mercy of society’s ideas of what is good for you.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Happiness Curve by Bernard Roth, 2015
Regular self‑inquiry clarifies values and purpose, reducing external pressure and enhancing authentic decision‑making.
In simple terms: Ask yourself who you are, what you want, and your purpose to stay true to yourself.
Use the three‑question check‑in often.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career planning
- relationship choices
- personal development
- overcoming societal pressure
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What core desire have you ignored?
- How does societal expectation affect your choices?
May become repetitive without new insights.