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Desires Quote by Bernard Roth

“If in doubt, go back to the earlier exercise where you asked yourself three questions: “Who am I?” “What do I want?” “What is my purpose?” It’s a good idea to revisit that exercise frequently. Now I’d like you to do it once more and add a new word: “What do I really want?” Keep asking it, over and…” quote by Bernard Roth
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““If in doubt, go back to the earlier exercise where you asked yourself three questions: “Who am I?” “What do I want?” “What is my purpose?” It’s a good idea to revisit that exercise frequently. Now I’d like you to do it once more and add a new word: “What do I really want?” Keep asking it, over and over, until you feel you have gained insight into your own desires so you’re no longer at the mercy of society’s ideas of what is good for you.””

Bernard Roth

About This Quote

Source Book: The Happiness Curve by Bernard Roth, 2015

Regular self‑inquiry clarifies values and purpose, reducing external pressure and enhancing authentic decision‑making.

In simple terms: Ask yourself who you are, what you want, and your purpose to stay true to yourself.

Key Takeaway

Use the three‑question check‑in often.

Themes

self‑awareness purpose authenticity

Mood

reflective motivational

Type

philosophical self‑help

When to use this quote

  • career planning
  • relationship choices
  • personal development
  • overcoming societal pressure

Key Concepts

introspection values goal‑setting

Questions to Reflect On

  • What core desire have you ignored?
  • How does societal expectation affect your choices?
A Different Perspective

May become repetitive without new insights.

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