Adversaries Quote by Benjamin Franklin
“You must not, when you have gained a victory, use any triumphing or insulting expressions, nor show too much of the pleasure you feel; but endeavour to console your adversary, and make him less dissatisfied with himself by every kind and civil expression that may be used with truth; such as, you understand the game better than I, but you are a little inattentive, or, you play too fast; or, you had the best of the game, but something happened to divert your thoughts, and that turned it in my favour.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Advice to a Young Man, 1748
Winning graciously means showing humility, offering kindness, and avoiding boastful remarks toward a defeated opponent.
In simple terms: Be humble after victory.
Key Takeaway
Treat opponents with respect.
Themes
humility
sportsmanship
empathy
Mood
respectful
considerate
Type
ethical
advice
When to use this quote
- team sports
- board games
- debates
- business negotiations
Key Concepts
ethical conduct
psychology of competition
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance confidence and humility?
- What language shows respect without sounding patronizing?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on humility may be perceived as insincere.
