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Affair Quote by Benjamin Constant

“Woe to the man who in the first moments of a love-affair does not believe that it will last forever! Woe to him who even in the arms of some mistress who has just yielded to him maintains an awareness of trouble to come and foresees that he may later tear himself away!” quote by Benjamin Constant
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““Woe to the man who in the first moments of a love-affair does not believe that it will last forever! Woe to him who even in the arms of some mistress who has just yielded to him maintains an awareness of trouble to come and foresees that he may later tear himself away!””

Benjamin Constant

About This Quote

The quote warns that doubting love’s permanence or fearing future trouble undermines the relationship’s potential.

In simple terms: Mistrusting love or anticipating problems harms the romance.

Key Takeaway

Trust and embrace love without preemptive doubt.

Themes

love trust fear anticipation relationships

Mood

cautionary philosophical

Type

advisory reflective

When to use this quote

  • courtship
  • marriage counseling
  • personal reflection
  • relationship advice

Key Concepts

psychology of attachment romantic idealism

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you let fear dictate your relationships?
  • Can trust coexist with realistic expectations?
A Different Perspective

Excessive optimism can ignore real issues, leading to disappointment.

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