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“Follow a shadow, it still flies you, Seem to fly, it will pursue: So court a mistress, she denies you; Let her alone, she will court you. Say are not women truly, then, Styled but the shadows of us men?” quote by Ben Jonson
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“Follow a shadow, it still flies you, Seem to fly, it will pursue: So court a mistress, she denies you; Let her alone, she will court you. Say are not women truly, then, Styled but the shadows of us men?”

Ben Jonson

About This Quote

Source Play: The Alchemist, 1610

Chasing elusive desires leads to frustration; letting go often reverses pursuit.

In simple terms: Pursuing what you can’t have causes conflict; releasing it may bring it back.

Key Takeaway

Release desire, observe natural flow.

Themes

desire pursuit reversal gender identity

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

aphilosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • career ambitions
  • personal growth
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

philosophy psychology gender roles

Questions to Reflect On

  • What do you chase that eludes you?
  • How does letting go change the dynamic?
A Different Perspective

If you chase something, you may lose it; letting go may not guarantee return.

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