Court Quote by Ben Jonson
“Follow a shadow, it still flies you, Seem to fly, it will pursue: So court a mistress, she denies you; Let her alone, she will court you. Say are not women truly, then, Styled but the shadows of us men?”
About This Quote
Source Play: The Alchemist, 1610
Chasing elusive desires leads to frustration; letting go often reverses pursuit.
In simple terms: Pursuing what you can’t have causes conflict; releasing it may bring it back.
Release desire, observe natural flow.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- career ambitions
- personal growth
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What do you chase that eludes you?
- How does letting go change the dynamic?
If you chase something, you may lose it; letting go may not guarantee return.