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Expect Quote by Bell Hooks

“Do not expect to receive the love from someone else you do not give yourself.” quote by Bell Hooks — Download Open image

“Do not expect to receive the love from someone else you do not give yourself.”

About This Quote

Source Book: All About Love, 2000

Love must first be given to oneself before expecting it from others.

In simple terms: Love yourself first.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate self‑love.

Themes

self‑love relationships expectations

Mood

thoughtful encouraging

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

therapy
dating
friendship
personal growth

Key Concepts

psychology self‑care

Questions to Reflect On

What does self‑love look like for you?
How can you balance self‑care and caring for others?

A Different Perspective

Self‑love can become selfish.

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