Codependent Quote by Barbara De Angelis
“in all codependent relationships, the rescuer needs the victim as much as the victim needs the rescuer.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Love and Intimacy, Barbara De Angelis, 1990
In codependent relationships each party relies on the other for emotional survival, creating a mutual but unhealthy dependence.
In simple terms: Both need each other too much.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and balance dependence.
Themes
codependency
relationships
emotional health
Mood
reflective
concerned
Type
advice
psychology
When to use this quote
- couples counseling
- self‑help work
- relationship patterns
- personal growth
Key Concepts
mutual reliance
boundary issues
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you establish healthier boundaries?
- What would independent emotional support look like?
A Different Perspective
Codependency can trap both parties in stagnation and prevent autonomy.
