My husband is so upset by President Trump's scapegoating of immigrants and Muslims, he refuses to even visit the United States. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
Babies aren't savages. Toddlers understand language long before they can talk. — Pamela Druckerman Babies Copy Share Image
Around my neighborhood, I'm known as the American who talks to her computer while she types. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
By your 40s, you don't want to be with the cool people; you want to be with your people. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
When I was 41, I had a very bad back pain, and it turned out to be Non-Hodgkin's lymphoma. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
Here's some news you might find surprising: By and large, the French like Jews. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
“Babies are designed to cry when they need something and mothers are designed to respond.” — Pamela Druckerman Babies Copy Share Image
I spent most of my adolescence feeling awkward but never once mentioned it. — Pamela Druckerman Adolescence Copy Share Image
It's fine to discuss money in France, as long as you're complaining that you don't have enough, or boasting about getting a… — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
I gradually understood why European mothers aren't in perpetual panic about their work-life balance and don't write books about how executive moms… — Pamela Druckerman Balance Copy Share Image
I hear people in their 20s describe the 40s as a far-off decade of too-late, when they'll regret things that they haven't… — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
If you had asked me what I wanted when I was 12 years old, I probably would have said, 'To marry a… — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
When we're in the U.S., my kids instantly start snacking all the time. I don't know how it happens. There is just… — Pamela Druckerman Food Copy Share Image
Even for natives, French satire is rarely laugh-out-loud funny. Its unspoken punch line is typically that things have gone irrevocably wrong, and… — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
There's this idea in America that you can be whatever you want. That remains an ideal in terms of how you dress… — Pamela Druckerman America Copy Share Image
“[French] Parents see it as their job to bring the child around to appreciating this [food]. They believe that just as they… — Pamela Druckerman Children Copy Share Image
French parents are very concerned about their kids. They know about pedophiles, allergies, and choking hazards. They take reasonable precautions. But they… — Pamela Druckerman Allergies Copy Share Image
“Like the French, he starts babies off on vegetables and fruits rather than bland cereals. He's not obsessed with allergies. He talks… — Pamela Druckerman Babies Copy Share Image
“French parents don't worry that they're going to damage their kids by frustrating them. To the contrary, they think their kids will… — Pamela Druckerman Parenting Copy Share Image
“Walter Mischel says the worst-case scenario for a kid from eighteen to twenty-four months of age is "the child is busy and… — Pamela Druckerman Children Copy Share Image
“Give willingly, refuse unwillingly,” he writes in Émile. “But let your refusal be irrevocable. Let no entreaties move you; let your ‘no,’… — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
The overarching conventional wisdom - what everyone from government experts to my French girlfriends take as articles of faith - is that… — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
One of the maddening things about being a foreigner in France is that hardly anyone in the rest of the world knows… — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
When I tell French parents that I know lots of American kids who will eat only pasta or only white rice, they… — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
I think, in writing a memoir, you kind of give order to your life. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
Usually, I'm so self-absorbed that my companion could be bleeding to death, and I might not notice. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
When my kids correct my cultural missteps, I sometimes suspect that they're not embarrassed, they're gleeful. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
Before Donald Trump took office, optimism about his presidency was the lowest of any president-elect since at least the 1970s. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
Having lived in America and France, I've been on both sides of the picky-eating divide. — Pamela Druckerman America Copy Share Image
I spend much of my free time listening to podcasts of American comedians talking to each other. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
You know you're in your 40s when you've spent 48 hours trying to think of a word, and that word was 'hemorrhoids.' — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
One of the great joys of a creative life is that your observations and loose moments aren't lost forever; they live in… — Pamela Druckerman Creative life Copy Share Image
Discrimination was a problem before terrorism. Now, the bad deeds of a few people have made life worse for millions. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
The French aren't known for being hilarious. When I told Parisians I was interested in French humor, they'd say 'French what?' — Pamela Druckerman Being Copy Share Image
Optimism - even, and perhaps especially in the face of difficulty - has long been an American hallmark. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
Although I wrote a book about infidelity around the world, I ended up concluding that fidelity is quite a good idea. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
I'm a third-generation Miamian. I'm fond of it. I'm an expatriate, so it's the only American city I can still legitimately claim. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
One of the many problems with parenting is that kids keep changing. Just when you're used to one stage, they zoom into… — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
How hard or easy it is to raise kids, especially while working, is a big part of people's well-being everywhere. — Pamela Druckerman Copy Share Image
The whole point of a commencement speech is to say something encouraging. — Pamela Druckerman Commencement Copy Share Image