Today, I will focus on having a good relationship with myself. — Melody Beattie Focus Copy Share Image
Caring works. Caretaking doesn't. We can learn to walk the line between the two. — Melody Beattie Caretaking Copy Share Image
We don't just get our choice; we get the consequence that choice creates. — Melody Beattie Choice Copy Share Image
We can trust ourselves to know when our boundaries are being violated. — Melody Beattie Being Copy Share Image
When we don't ask for what we want and need, we discount ourselves. — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
We learn the magical lesson that making the most of what we have turns it into more. — Melody Beattie Effort Copy Share Image
This moment, we are right where we need to be, right where we are meant to be. — Melody Beattie Acceptance Copy Share Image
Be patient. Relax and trust. Let go. Then, let go some more. — Melody Beattie Attitude Copy Share Image
Expressing passion and gratitude will guide your life. Say it again and again. Say it until you believe it. Say it until… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
Money is not evil. There is no scarcity, except in our mind and attitudes. And what we believe we deserve will be… — Melody Beattie Attitude Copy Share Image
“To be happy we need someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to. I” — Melody Beattie Happiness Copy Share Image
Start today to follow your heart. Map out your own journey. Have the adventure of a lifetime. — Melody Beattie Adventure Copy Share Image
In martial arts, every time you graduate, move to another level, you don't forget everything you've done. You build on it, but… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
Our best problem-solving resource is peace. Solutions arise easily and naturally out of a peaceful state. — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
I never know what the next lesson is going to be, because we're not supposed to know -- we're supposed to trust… — Melody Beattie Inspirational Copy Share Image
Furthermore, worrying about people and problems doesn't help. It doesn't solve problems, it doesn't help other people, and it doesn't help us.… — Melody Beattie Anxiety Copy Share Image
I pray for faith that my future will be good if I live today well, and in peace. I will remember that… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
It's hard to give up the self-esteem connected to being codependent and appearing 'right,' which is probably a survival behavior learned from… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
Today I will stop trying to control my relationships. I will participate at a reasonable level and let the other person do… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
Today I will focus on a peaceful pace, rather than a harried one. I will keep moving forward gently, not frantically. I… — Melody Beattie Anxious Copy Share Image
Today I will tell myself that I'm lovable. Just because some people haven't been able to love me in ways that worked… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
Today I will practice healthy giving, understanding that caretaking and compulsive giving don't work. I choose what I want to give, to… — Melody Beattie Balance Copy Share Image
Letting go helps us to live in a more peaceful state of mind and helps restore our balance. It allows others to… — Melody Beattie Balance Copy Share Image
God loves me enough to let me go through all the lessons I came here to learn, even the ones that hurt… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
I know when to say no and when to say yes. I take responsibility for my choices. The victim? She went somewhere… — Melody Beattie Boundaries Copy Share Image
“Once upon a time, a woman moved to a cave in the mountains to study with a guru. She wanted, she said,… — Melody Beattie Enlightenment Copy Share Image
Boundaries emerge from deep within. They are connected to letting go of guilt and shame, and to changing our beliefs about what… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
Letting go means we stop trying to force outcomes and make people behave. It means we give up resistance to the way… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
You can clear the land, plow the field, spread the fertilizer, and plant the corn. But you cannot make it rain. You… — Melody Beattie Action Copy Share Image
We need to set goals for ourselves. Start today...if you don't have any goals, make your first goal getting some goals. You… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
We call it keeping up with the Joneses. They buy a boat and we buy a bigger one. They get a new… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
Are you balanced? Do you share your time, your energy, your life, as much with yourself as you do with those around… — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
...the pain that comes from loving someone who's in trouble can be profound. — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
It's our job to first make ourselves feel better and then make ourselves feel good. — Melody Beattie Copy Share Image
