My identity will always inform my experience and shape my perception. But I am an unremarkable person. — Hari Nef Experience Copy Share Image
When you're making an independent film, there is no guarantee that anyone is going to see it, ever. — Hari Nef Cinema Copy Share Image
What's infuriating is when cis people think celebrating me is celebrating transness. — Hari Nef Celebrating Copy Share Image
Sexuality is who you want to be with. Gender identity is who you want to be in the world. — Hari Nef Gender Copy Share Image
There have been moments where I've had to question the way I've used social media and change it. Not because anything was… — Hari Nef Change Copy Share Image
If I get too glam and polished and pretty, people are like, 'Hari, why aren't you speaking up about issues?' And if… — Hari Nef Copy Share Image
If you're anything other than a white, cisgender, able-bodied dude, people are going to project narratives, imagery, and context onto you that… — Hari Nef Context Copy Share Image
I'm fun, ruthless, articulate, impatient, maybe a little cavalier. I'm a woman and a feminist. I'm transgender. I'm an actress, a reluctant… — Hari Nef Feminism Copy Share Image
I'm very conscious and weary of the hype economy and the way people build things up just to tear them down. — Hari Nef Economy Copy Share Image
In an ideal world, I wouldn't have to change my body. I wouldn't have to do all this stuff. I wouldn't have… — Hari Nef Body Copy Share Image
I think the skin is the most important part of a strong makeup look, and if you take care of that, the… — Hari Nef Copy Share Image
I was always looking at Helmut Newton photos with the Le Smoking suit and Stella Tennant in Self Service magazine. It was… — Hari Nef Copy Share Image
I liked playing video games because I felt like I was inside of the story in a way that I didn't feel… — Hari Nef Chance Copy Share Image
There's something very noble about the bowling shoe. It has very little pretense, and it's kind of naughty. You have to share… — Hari Nef Bowling Copy Share Image
I could have hidden in Boston and lived at home for three years, gone through my transition, taken voice lessons to make… — Hari Nef Gender Copy Share Image
I feel like so much of mainstream feminism springs from the second wave, which was essentially a discourse spearheaded by white, cisgender,… — Hari Nef Feminism Copy Share Image
I admire actresses who are willing to jettison the easy route toward exposure and commercial success as an actor in favor or… — Hari Nef Actresses Copy Share Image
I think that you need to balance a critique of feminine, patriarchal beauty ideals while simultaneously understanding how they can make you… — Hari Nef Balance Copy Share Image
If you're going to make a film about rage in 2018, 2017... If you're going to make a film about revenge and… — Hari Nef Anger Copy Share Image
I can kind of fit the women's and the men's samples in a very similar way, just because of where my body… — Hari Nef Barriers Copy Share Image
Leaving the house in a pair of flip-flops in Manhattan is disgusting to me, no shade. — Hari Nef Copy Share Image
If we didn't desensitize ourselves in some way, every day would feel like its own tragedy. — Hari Nef Day Copy Share Image
I couldn't remember when I'd stopped willing to be trans and started wanting to be trans. If there were a difference, I'd… — Hari Nef Copy Share Image
I feel like the most fascinating parts of a trans life take place after the decision to transition. They take place when… — Hari Nef Body Copy Share Image
Sometimes it feels like people can't wrap their head around the notion that an 'androgynous' trans woman with shorter hair could be… — Hari Nef Androgynous Copy Share Image
When people ask me what I do, I tell them that I 'do things in front of people.' I don't know why… — Hari Nef Copy Share Image
I keep a very cold apartment - I tend to crank my AC just about as low as it can go. I… — Hari Nef Copy Share Image
I'm not so fascinated by these ingenue roles. I tend to gravitate towards women in plays or shows or films that are… — Hari Nef Copy Share Image
I feel like my transition, in a broader sense, began the second I left home and came to New York. Because all… — Hari Nef Home Copy Share Image
I can kind of fit the women's and the men's samples in a very similar way, just because of where my body… — Hari Nef Body Copy Share Image
When we say 'trans is beautiful' or 'being trans is the best,' that is a truth we created for ourselves that's clearly… — Hari Nef Beautiful Copy Share Image
When I saw that Laverne Cox was on the cover of 'Time' magazine, I totally lost it. It was a coup for… — Hari Nef Coup Copy Share Image
I've certainly been in situations where I've been rejected and endangered and had my humanity put in question - just as almost… — Hari Nef Copy Share Image
