Art of living Quote by Audre Lorde
““And I find I must remember that the pain is not its own reason for being. It is a part of living. And the only kind of pain that is intolerable is pain that is wasteful, pain from which we do not learn. And I think that we must learn to distinguish between the two.””
About This Quote
Source Speech: “The Cancer Journals” reading, 1980
Pain is inevitable, but only suffering that yields no growth is truly harmful; we should learn from pain.
In simple terms: Pain is natural; useless pain hurts more.
Learn from pain, avoid wasteful suffering.
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When to use this quote
- grief counseling
- personal development
- health recovery
- creative work
- education
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you turn painful experiences into lessons?
- What pain in your life feels wasteful?
Pain without learning can become destructive, leading to stagnation.