Quote by Arundhati Roy
““She had never before met a man who spoke of the world—of what it was, and how it came to be, or what he thought would become of it—in the way in which other men she knew discussed their jobs, their friends or their weekends at the beach. Being with Chacko made Margaret feel as though her soul had escaped from the narrow confines of her island country into the vast, extravagant spaces of his. He made her feel as though the world belonged to them—as though it lay before them like an opened frog on a dissecting table, begging to be examined. In the year she knew them, before they were married, she discovered a little magic in herself, and for a while felt like a blithe genie released from her lamp. She was perhaps too young to realize that what she assumed was her love for Chacko was actually a tentative, timorous, acceptance of herself.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The God of Small Things by Arundhati Roy, 1997
Encountering a broader worldview expands personal horizons, allowing self‑discovery and a tentative acceptance of one’s identity.
In simple terms: New ideas free the soul and reveal hidden self‑acceptance.
Embrace diverse perspectives to grow.
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When to use this quote
- education
- travel
- relationships
- creative work
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance new experiences with self‑knowledge?
- What limits your willingness to explore?
The excitement may be fleeting and lead to confusion about true self.