Attachment Quote by Arthur Rimbaud
“Love...no such thing. Whatever it is that binds families and married couples together, that's not love. That's stupidity or selfishness or fear. Love doesn't exist. Self interest exists, attachment based on personal gain exists, complacency exists. But not love. Love has to be reinvented, that’s certain.”
About This Quote
Source Poem: "Love" (fragment) from "Les Fleurs du Mal", 1857
Love is portrayed as a myth, suggesting real human bonds are driven by self‑interest, fear, or selfishness rather than pure affection.
In simple terms: Love is seen as illusion; self‑interest dominates.
Key Takeaway
Question the true motives behind relationships.
Themes
love
illusion
self‑interest
Mood
skeptical
analytical
Type
critical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- family dynamics
- friendship
- personal growth
Key Concepts
psychology
existentialism
relationships
Questions to Reflect On
- What evidence contradicts this view?
- How can love be nurtured beyond self‑interest?
A Different Perspective
Neglects the capacity for altruistic love and emotional depth.
