Bruises Quote by Anthony Trollope
“With many women I doubt whether there be any more effectual wayof touching their hearts than ill-using them and then confessing it. If you wish to get the sweetest fragrance from the herb at your feet, tread on it and bruise it.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Way We Live Now, 1875
Touching women’s hearts is best achieved by hurting them first, then confessing, likened to bruising a herb to release fragrance.
In simple terms: Hurting others can make them appreciate you, like bruising a plant for scent.
Key Takeaway
Avoid causing harm to gain affection.
Themes
relationships
manipulation
ethics
Mood
cautionary
critical
Type
ethical
relationship
When to use this quote
- romantic pursuits
- personal interactions
- ethical counseling
Key Concepts
Power dynamics
emotional exploitation
trust
Questions to Reflect On
- Is it ever justified to hurt to gain love?
- What healthier ways exist to connect emotionally?
A Different Perspective
Such manipulation is morally wrong and damages trust.
