Allowing Quote by Anthony Trollope
“There is nothing perhaps so generally consoling to a man as a well-established grievance; a feeling of having been injured, on which his mind can brood from hour to hour, allowing him to plead his own cause in his own court, within his own heart, and always to plead it successfully.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Way We Live Now, 1875
Finding comfort in a personal grievance that lets one feel justified and in control.
In simple terms: A grievance can be oddly soothing.
Recognize when grievance replaces constructive action.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- legal disputes
- relationship conflicts
- political debates
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we cling to grievances?
- Can grievance become a barrier to growth?
Clinging to grievance may hinder resolution.