“I think there is way to project self nfcoidence without being rude or arrogant. Here are some thoughts:- Never be the one to chase after a girl. if you like her, ask her out and she doesn't respond then move on to the next. If you call her and she doesn't call back don't call back a couple more times. If she doesnt call back then don't wait on her- Smile often and say hello to people try to be outgoing if you can. Provide complements to women you look nice today, your hair is different looks good, you are wearing a nice perfume, etc. Don't over-do it, just try making a complement or two when you can- Walk tall and not too fast don't strut though. Like a fighter pilot walking out to his plane before takeoff or something- Hold doors open for women and smile at them, but then don't gawk at them .just be polite and then pretend they are not nice looking, you are just being courteous- There are a million girls out there and so don't be in a hurry to find one if you make yourself really available then women think you are desperate. You do that by taking your time and not jumping at every chance you have to call a girl or talk with her. Just take your time. Think about if you saw a Mustang Shelby Cobra at a dealership vs. a new Toyota Camry. yeah they are both nice cars, but man, that shelby is hard to come by ..so people want it more”
