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“I'd seen a great many partial eclipses, but a partial eclipse has the same relation to a total eclipse as flirting with a man does to marrying him. It's completely different.” quote by Annie Dillard
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“I'd seen a great many partial eclipses, but a partial eclipse has the same relation to a total eclipse as flirting with a man does to marrying him. It's completely different.”

Annie Dillard

About This Quote

Source Essay: “Total Eclipse” in *Pilgrim at Tinker Creek*, 1974

A partial eclipse is a minor version of a total eclipse, just as casual flirting is far from marriage; the depth and commitment differ greatly.

In simple terms: Minor experiences differ from full commitment.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the difference between superficial and deep involvement.

Themes

relationships commitment comparisons

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • marriage
  • relationship counseling

Key Concepts

depth intimacy expectations

Questions to Reflect On

  • Are you settling for partial experiences?
  • How do you move from flirtation to commitment?
A Different Perspective

Flirting can lead to marriage, but not all flirtations become serious.

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