Brother Quote by Anne Tyler
““Epictetus say that everything has two handles, one by which it can be borne and one which it cannot. If your brother sins against you, he says, don't take hold of it by the wrong he did you but by the fact that he's your brother. That's how it can be borne.””
About This Quote
Source Philosophy: Discourses of Epictetus, 1st century AD
We can choose how to respond to events, focusing on the relationship rather than the wrongdoing.
In simple terms: Choose to see the person, not the offense.
Key Takeaway
Respond with compassion, not resentment.
Themes
philosophy
relationships
resilience
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- family conflict
- workplace disputes
- personal grievances
Key Concepts
Stoicism
cognitive reframing
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you practice seeing the person behind the mistake?
- What limits does compassion have?
A Different Perspective
May ignore personal hurt, making it hard to set boundaries.
