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“How inexplicable it seems. Anything else will be accepted as a better excuse. If one sets aside time for a business appointment, a trip to the hairdresser, a social engagement or a shopping expedition, that time is accepted as inviolable. But if one says: I cannot come because that is my hour to…” quote by Anne Morrow Lindbergh
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“How inexplicable it seems. Anything else will be accepted as a better excuse. If one sets aside time for a business appointment, a trip to the hairdresser, a social engagement or a shopping expedition, that time is accepted as inviolable. But if one says: I cannot come because that is my hour to be alone, one is considered rude, egotistical or strange.”

Anne Morrow Lindbergh

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Source Essay: Thoughts on Social Norms, 1950s

Society judges personal time differently than public appointments, labeling self‑care as selfish.

In simple terms: People value public obligations over private solitude.

Key Takeaway

Respect personal boundaries.

Themes

social norms personal time judgment self‑care

Mood

reflective critical

Type

philosophical social commentary

When to use this quote

  • work meetings
  • doctor appointments
  • personal retreats
  • family events

Key Concepts

cultural expectations boundary setting

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance personal needs with social expectations?
  • What excuses are socially acceptable?
A Different Perspective

Self‑care is essential for wellbeing, not selfish.

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