Done Quote by Anne Lamott
“Forgiveness means it finally becomes unimportant that you hit back. You're done. It doesn't necessarily mean that you want to have lunch with the person. If you keep hitting back, you stay trapped in the nightmare...”
About This Quote
Source Book: Travel and Mourning, 2002
Forgiveness frees you from retaliation, though it doesn’t require reconciliation; holding grudges sustains suffering.
In simple terms: Forgiveness ends personal suffering.
Choose release over revenge.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counseling
- conflict resolution
- personal journaling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What grudges linger?
- How can you let go without reconciling?
True reconciliation may be impossible.